Need pads in a tiny Haputale shop and the counter is all men — point and buy or walk to a pharmacy?

Both work. Pointing at the shelf and paying is normal — shopkeepers sell these every day and are usually matter-of-fact. If you want more choice or less audience, a pharmacy or small supermarket in town is the quieter habit many travelers use. You do not owe a speech; a finger point and the pack in hand is enough. Carry a couple of days' supply next time in your day bag so you are not hunting mid-hike. No invented brand gospel — whatever sealed pack they stock is the practical answer.