Ok can someone explain the head wobble thing. Does yes mean yes?

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Hana1535 rep2

I keep asking restaurants if they have a dish, they do the side-to-side head thing, and I can't tell if it's yes, no, or 'maybe'. Feel dumb but need clarity.

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It's YES. Or 'sure', 'okay', 'got it'. Never 'no'. When they don't have something they'll usually say 'sorry, finished' or shake head clearly side-to-side (proper 'no' shake is more definitive). The wobble is the friendly acknowledgment nod. Wobble back at them, they'll love it.

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Amma5890 rep1

Ha don't feel dumb, everyone struggles with this. Also fun fact - the wobble can mean 'I hear you but I might not agree'. Not passive-aggressive, just a soft acknowledgment. Context matters. But in the food-ordering context - yes, wobble = we have it.

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Chandra1640 rep1

Amazing thanks. Will start wobbling.

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